okay, i need ur advice. whoever you may be. jarra jace susheela marcel notneo....YOU! whomever you are...

[here is the situation]

this is a guy who i have been with ('going out', 'together', 'dating', 'seeing' whatever) for a week and a bit, although it seems like ages.

...he's a guy who i met through some other friends, who i met through another [boyfriend]...

today he came over and i was wearing my most favourite hat/beanie ever [jarra- the one i got at woodford that utterly rocks and is rainbow and from nepal and long and funky and cool] ....and so he goes 'can i wear it' and i goes 'okay' and he does and then he wants to borrow it cuz they are about to drive away, so's i say as long as you bring it back tonight and he's all yeeeeeah!! and promised.
and now its verging on midnight and he hasnt come back. i knwo its little but if i cant even trust him to do something as simple as that... well what then?

aaalso, whenever we go out, or he comes over... its like this big avoidance of 'touching' ....ie, in ANY way at all. its weirdness.

i shall call it a 'pretzel' relationship. cuz whenever i try and talk to him something always gets in the way..... its not always his faught. but yeah

Dear Dr love.... i like this guy alot, he's so nice and sweet and good as soooooooooo so many things.... what do i do?!...From a girl who always Hopelessly falls for guys who are baaaaaaaad bad bad for her.